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Dublin, IRELAND — The traditional wake is one of this island’s most sacred rituals.
The Irish wake is the quintessential, final act of intimacy, and social distancing is an affront to how Ireland celebrates life and death.
The gathering of hordes at the home of the deceased for up to three days is the hallmark, in many ways, of our respect for the dead, and of our famed hospitality.
‘It was a shock nonetheless to see, in recent days, a sorrowful sign on a rural Irish farmyard gate.’
It involves innumerable hugs, tears, laughter and the firm holding of hands as we try, at close quarters — and enveloped by rivers of tea — to hold our grief.
It involves overnight vigils at the coffin of the deceased, whose hands are touched endlessly. And it can involve discrete road-traffic management by volunteers or the gardaí (Irish police) if your loved one’s passing attracts a significant gathering.
It’s hard to describe how much this ritual of the Irish wake matters.
It is a tradition that can be traced back to the era of the Great Famine.
It is hard-wired into our DNA.
We knew that sweeping restrictions were inevitable once the coronavirus made its dark presence felt in Europe, including Ireland. Nonetheless, it was a shock to see, in recent days, a sorrowful sign on a rural Irish farmyard gate. The sign, on the gate of a wake house, directed mourners, other than immediate family, to stay away because of new restrictions on mass gatherings including weddings, baptisms and funerals.
Another sign said, “Please refrain from handshaking,” a hitherto unthinkable thing in the Irish mourners’ psyche.
When the Irish Association of Funeral Directors published guidelines stating that all funeral services for coronavirus victims should be postponed, and the deceased brought straight to the crematorium or cemetery for committal, Ireland emitted a collective sigh of distress.
Families will be able to say goodbye to their loved ones in the coffin, but will not be allowed to kiss the deceased.
The association also recommended banning family members from funeral homes, prompting the Health Services Executive (HSE) to rapidly produce more permissive guidelines which state that close family members of people who die from coronavirus will be allowed attend their funerals, but only under strictly controlled conditions.
For now, families will be able to say goodbye to their loved ones in the coffin, but will not be allowed to kiss the deceased.
After a video of revellers in a tourist hot spot in Dublin’s Temple Bar was widely circulated, Irish Prime Minister Leo Varadkar threatened to seek enforcement powers to sanction bars and clubs in breach of the rules of gatherings of more than 100 people.
All pubs in Ireland were closed on the eve of St Patrick’s Day, following a request by the government. The mass closures were accompanied by a plea from the country’s chief medical officer, Tony Holohan, for the public not to host or attend “COVID parties” in their home.
Some, but not all, have complied.
As of Sunday evening, there were 175,275 confirmed cases globally and 6,513 deaths, according to data the latest rally from the database of Johns Hopkins University’s Center for Systems Science and Engineering; the database also reported 77,257 recoveries.
In Ireland, there were 169 confirmed cases and 2 deaths. In the British province of Northern Ireland, however, where schools remain open, 11 deaths from COVID-19 deaths have been recorded.
Like our fellow citizens around the globe, we are not immune to the alarm generated by COVID-19, the disease caused by the new virus SARS-CoV-2.
Less than an hour after Varadkar announced well-flagged restrictions including the closure of schools, universities and cultural institutions — as well as the cancellation of mass gatherings — my local supermarket in Dublin resembled a low-budget B-Movie version of an end-of-days panic buying scene.
The scene was surreal. The fear, if misplaced, is sadly all too real.
No amount of reassurance by the government and business leaders that supply chains are not at risk could assuage worried shoppers hoofing acres of toilet roll, pasta and bread into their trollies like extreme preppers from some obscure U.S. cable channel show.
And the wider contagion that followed was brutal and swift, with restaurateurs and child-care operators laying off staff because of a collapse in bookings.
“The Late Late Show,” presented by broadcaster Ryan Tubridy on RTÉ, Ireland’s national broadcaster, is the world’s second-longest running late-night chat show after “The Tonight Show” on NBC.
Ireland’s longest-running television chat show played to a ghost studio, flanked — meters apart as per official guidelines.
It is famous for its theme tune and the goodies and giveaways for those lucky to get tickets to the studio — “one for everyone in the audience” is one of the show’s famous catch phrases.
But last Friday night Tubridy played to a ghost studio, flanked — meters apart as per official guidelines — by a group of experts deployed to calm Ireland Inc.
The solemnity and calm maturity of the broadcast was a welcome antidote to the deluge of hysteria perpetrated by all manner of keyboard warriors berating politicians for making tough decisions based on the best available medical and epidemiological advice at hand.
For more than a week earlier, a debate had raged over whether the traditional St Patrick’s Day festivities, celebrated in some manner for more than 1,000 years, and expected to generate €73 million for the economy in 2020, should proceed.
Although now one of the fastest-growing economy in Europe, the wounds of the 2008 global financial crisis, which brought the International Monetary Fund-led troika to these shores, run deep in the Republic of Ireland, which is reeling from a housing and homelessness crisis that led to a breakthrough election for Sinn Fein, a nationalist left-wing party committed to reunifying the island of Ireland, led by Mary Lou McDonald.
Cancelling our national feast day is no mean feat.
The government eventually relented to public pressure to cancel the parades, banning large events until March 29 at the earliest, only for the body public to vent its outrage and dismay at a decision by British Prime Minister Boris Johnson’s government to allow the Cheltenham Festival to proceed.
Over 250,000 people, with thousands of Irish devotees, attend the famous horse racing festival over a four-day period.
“Cheltenham’s horsey set unmoved by some poxy little global pandemic,” screamed a headline from the Irish Times whose sublime sportswriter Keith Duggan captured how the outside world could only look on aghast as the festival continued amid coronavirus crisis.
It’s not just Cheltenham.
The differing stances taken by the British and Irish governments towards the coronavirus has baffled this tiny island
The differing stances taken by the British and Irish governments towards the coronavirus has baffled this tiny island of just over 4.8 million people which, for more than three years, has been beleaguered by the prospect of a hard border returning in the wake of Brexit.
My godson, 7, was one of the many small children who couldn’t believe that they, at the time of writing, are still at school in my hometown of Newry (Northern Ireland), when their cousins and friends in Dundalk (13 kilometers across the border in the Republic of Ireland), have been sent home from school.
It doesn’t take a seven-year-old to tell you that pandemics know no borders, nor do global-health emergencies respect age-old political and political rivalries.
Yet the differing stances taken by the British and Irish governments, the former opting to keep schools open for now, the latter moving to close schools last week, sparked a war of words between the Democratic Unionist Party, led by First Minister Arlene Foster and Michelle O’Neill, her deputy who is also the vice-president of Sinn Fein.
The lack of an all-island response has also rattled communities on both sides of the Irish border puzzled by which experts’ advise — the U.K.’s or Europe’s — they should heed.
As of Sunday, a second death has been confirmed in the Republic of Ireland, which has recorded 129 cases.
The British province of Northern Ireland has now 34 cases. There are no deaths yet, but all figures are expected to rise in line with other countries.
As we wait with bated breath, spirits are being raised by welcome, ingenious outbreaks of viral kindness and offers to help those on the frontline of this battle as well as those who are self-isolating.
It remains to be seen whether the island of Ireland becomes a Singapore or an Italy.
And, at times, it feels as if we are in a limbo state, a form, you might say, of purgatory.
No one knows the final destination. But it’s a journey we on the island of Ireland are taking together. More physically apart, yes, but still coming together with our joys and our griefs, in this ancient, timeless art of the gathering.
Dearbhail McDonald is a journalist, author and broadcaster who presents ‘Sunday With Dearbhail’ on BBC Radio Ulster. You can tweet Dearbhail @dearbhaildibs